woman want in a relationship, People say it is difficult to understand what a woman wants from her man because women are hard to understand. But like Oscar Wilde said, a woman wants her man to love her forever. She always seeks to be the most important person in his life.
Don’t think of this as a rule book to dealing with women. Instead, consider this a guide to establishing healthy relationships where women don’t nag or obsess and men (you) don’t get angry and leave.
what a woman wants in a relationship
Each woman is different from the other, and so are her expectations. However, there are some basic things that every woman hopes for in her relationship.
To Feel Loved
Women like to know that they are valued and loved by their partners. When women feel loved, they relax and open to the relationship. The arguments dissipate, the sex is abundant, and their nurturing feminine energy flows throughout our lives.
As an ideal partner, you need to spend some fruitful time with your woman. Be affectionate to her, and pay attention to her small demands and wishes. If she is unhappy that you are going out with your friends, or she’s upset about her day at work, or she is only responding to you with brief snippets of sentences, then the cause is most likely her not feeling loved enough.
Learn to see through her words, actions, and moods and see what the real root of it is. Lastly, try to be sweet with your words and kind in your deeds.
She needs attention
Women want to feel seen. Women do not want a husband who is more attracted to his smartphone than to his partner. Would you appreciate it if your partner is busy browsing on the phone when you try to talk to her about something important? Similarly, she, too, expects you to listen to her with attention. Do not brush aside her concerns or worries as trivial.
Could you pay attention to her when she needs you? It reflects your love for her. She wants to feel you hearing her and being aware of her emotional state. She doesn’t necessarily want you to be affected by her emotional state, but she wants you to witness it.
If she is sitting across the room from you and isn’t picking up on the fact that she is suffering emotionally and on the verge of tears, she will begin to trust you less. She will think, “If he can’t see that I am hurting now, how long will it take him to figure it out? Will I be suffering for days or weeks before he is aware of it or cares enough to help me through this? I guess I have to rely on myself for my own emotional support.”
Life can seem extremely lonely, even within a relationship. You have to constantly show your partner that at least one person will witness her and her journey through life by giving her attention.
A partner who is a friend
She enters into a hitherto unfamiliar life, and you are the only person she can trust. You are the only one with whom she can share her thoughts and speak talk her mind.
In short, she seeks a friend in you, a friend who is there with her always and forever. Give her company, spend time with her, crack jokes, and pursue some common interests to strengthen
your beautiful relationship.
4. Make her Feel Sexually Desired
What’s a major difference between your relationship with your partner and your relationship with everyone else in your life? You have sex with your partner. Sex is as important to women as it is for men.
Women need to feel sexually desired. They want to make sure that you see and appreciate them as feminine, sexual beings.
Praise her body. Feel her and grab her appreciatively. Tell your wife how her bright smile makes your day. Remind her that you see her as a sexual being, and you will both benefit.
Also, women love to have a man who is sexually active and gives them the pleasure of mating. Trust us; she can’t take hands off you. An active sex life keeps the spark alive in any relationship.
5. Patience To Understand
Women can be complex and confusing creatures of what I like to call ‘mis-habit’—it’s not exactly a habit as much as it’s a pattern that women will ever so often deviate from, mostly if and when they’re afraid or upset but don’t know how to show it. And the heart of heart, women know this. We know how we sometimes lead you on, confuse you, and push you away and then pull you back in, all the while trying not to do any of it. All they want is for you to be patient in your understanding of them. We can erupt, very much like a volcano, about the tiniest of things and cry at the drop of a hat when you’re least expecting it. All the while, we’re just trying to remain unfazed and ‘normal’ so we don’t scare you away. We, women, have a terrible habit of digging up and equating everything with and to experience. And so, obviously, you get pitted against an ex who isn’t even in the picture anymore or get snubbed off because of something someone did some trillions of years ago that still hurts. What every woman really needs is for a man to be patient with her. She’ll come around; she always does.
6. To Be Appreciated
The feminine in all people responds primarily to praise and appreciation.
Remind your partner that you love her. Tell her that you appreciate what she brings to your life. Show her how much she means to you.
The fastest way to ruin your relationship into the ground is by ignoring your partner and taking her for granted. Appreciation is the opposite of those things. Appreciation is embodying this mindset: “I am aware of what you bring to my life, and I want you to be sure that I am aware of it as well.”
So tell her what you appreciate, and tell her often.
7. Someone that is Financially Independent
Code for financial independence. She owned a home, and she didn’t want someone who came into the relationship with nothing. She’d worked hard to get where she was, and having to support a partner was a deal-breaker financially.
Someone who has a job they actually LIKE. Daily complaints about your partner’s work are hard to listen to — especially when they’ve been going for a while.
8. Spend on her
Even if your wife is financially independent, she might want you to spend on her. A woman may not want to take the burden of providing the livelihood for the family. She doesn’t mind supporting you but would like to have the man of the house earn for her family.
9. Listens to her:
Could you pay attention to what she says? Turn to her when she is talking and look at her. It gives her the confidence that you are listening to her. If you are busy on your laptop or mobile phone, it will frustrate her, ruining the atmosphere at home. Allocate at least an hour every day for her while having breakfast or dinner. Please talk about the day’s work, and ask about her day.
10. Enjoys her cooking
Let her know that she is a good cook. Tell her about your favorite dishes and why you like them. She will be glad to cook for you. Appreciate her effort when she tries to cook something new for you. That will encourage her to cook better.
11. Freedom To Be
The freedom to be is one of the most prized things you can ever give to a woman in a relationship with you. It’s not about allowing her to be herself. It’s much more. It’s about allowing her to be. There is a reason why we call ourselves human beings. The word ‘being’ entails so much more than it is made out to be. It’s about a deeper sense of purpose that has nothing to do with changing the world. Being is about accepting situations and people as they are and understanding that some things are beyond control; it’s about ceasing to worry about things that cannot be controlled; it’s about giving in to the incident that is life and letting destiny work its magic. That’s what being is. And not everyone can do that. When you let her really be, she will be the happy person both of you deserve, and so will you.
Women may or may not dream of a knight in shining armor, but they definitely want a partner who will treat them like a queen. They aspire for a man in love with her even after spending decades of their lives together.