When you allow or expect a man to pay for stuffs for you, you GIVE him the power to control the narrative…He has an expectation which he expects you to meet. Of you know that you plan not to let him control the narrative,RESPECT yourself by paying or demanding to split the bills and mean it.If he refuses and goes ahead to pay, you are no longer obliged to meet his expectations and he will treat you as an equal partner/friend. Women, carry your own money.
